Wednesday, March 26, 2014
An Instruction Manual for Making Your Dream Life a Reality
In the early 2000s when I was a young advertising copywriter in LA, I met another copywriter who almost immediately became my writer-girl crush. Janice had this bubbly enthusiasm about life and way of making it seem like anything was possible, which at the time was a bit of a foreign concept to me. I remember her sharing details with me about a book she was writing, and I was awed when she seemed to get it published almost effortlessly.
The girl clearly knew how to make her dreams come true.
In 2010, Janice started planning her escape from advertising—which, like her first book, she made happen quite quickly. It wasn't just a change of day-job scenery Janice wanted, however. She wanted to travel and have adventures and maybe even find romance.
Of course, she did all of it. And lucky for us, she wrote a book that chronicles how she did it. (Added bonus: the book will charm your pants off.)
Paris Letters tells Janice's story of emancipating herself from advertising, traveling to Europe, falling in love in Paris, and creating a business based on her passion. It's such a beautiful read, I didn't want it to end. In addition to loving Janice's storytelling, I was so struck by all the wisdom the book has to offer. (Mrs. MacLeod-Lik does have a Master's degree in Spiritual Psychology, so it's not really a surprise her book would be packed with life lesson gems...)
Janice took a lot of steps to bring her dream life into full swing, but my affinity for manifesty stuff made these ones stand out most to me:
1. Let yourself daydream (and plot and plan).
The only way to get clear on what you really want—and how you can work towards getting it—is to give yourself time and space to focus on thinking about it. I'm a big fan of journaling (as is Janice) as a means of gaining clarity. The answers to your happiness only reveal themselves when you give them a place to show up.
2. Let yourself be steered.
Thinking you'll end up in Rome and then falling in love in Paris could be viewed as a derailment if you look at it from the wrong angle. When you can stay open to the reroutes life serves up—and make sure you're following your feelgood along the way—you'll ultimately end up in where you want to be. (Even if you didn't always know you wanted to be there.)
3. Listen to the whispers.
Your intuition is always sending messages to guide you toward what you want most. It alerts you to possibilities and passions and solutions to the stuff you're trying desperately to figure out. You just have to make sure you're paying attention to what it's saying.
Janice took her yearning for something new and turned it into a fairy tale life in Paris. I truly believe that any of us can do the same if we just set our hearts and minds to it.
Do yourself a favor and pick up a copy of Paris Letters. It'll transport you to the streets of the world's most romantic city and make you believe in magic. And if it doesn't spark some ideas on how you can start moving toward your dream life—just like its author did—call me, I'd like to coach you on that...